Always be ready.
I was not raised evangelical. In fact the denomination I was raised in, Episcopal, was referred to as the “Frozen Chosen” by evangelist Billy Sunday. Talking about faith, particularly speaking from the heart, speaking with passion, was NOT something I witnessed growing up. That is not a value statement or a condemnation. In fact I knew many Episcopalians who practiced the faith in very real, very devout ways. It was just not a normal experience for people in the church I grew up in to speak about the faith… unless they were paid clergy. And even then it was primarily a cerebral exercise more than a discussion that engaged the emotions.
So when I came to faith at age 23… in an Episcopal retreat called Cursillo, I was on fire for God, overwhelmed by a love and passion for Jesus and others, yet without a natural outlet to tell my story. I can distinctly remember my Dad laughing good-naturedly and telling me, “Yeah, some people think that new Christians need to be locked up for a few months right after conversion so they don’t scare everybody to death.” I believe I took that in the right way… that I needed to be sensitive to where others were and approach them in the right manner. I also realized that was a very “Episcopal” thing to say.
Thirty two years later I’ve made plenty of mistakes both being too bold and being too timid in sharing my faith. But along the way I’ve learned a few things that I think the Father would have me share with you. As always we cannot go wrong with looking at Jesus, modeling what He did, and seeking to follow the Holy Spirit in speaking and doing as He leads.
- Beginning our day in intimacy with the Father sets the stage for our engagement with others. When we start with time alone speaking with God, reading the Word, and allowing His Spirit to brood over us and work within us, we are spiritually prepared for the meetings with others we will have through the day.
- Keeping an open heart to the Holy Spirit will make us sensitive to the needs of others. Today I was in a trade show for the consulting firm I work for. I gave a presentation this morning (which for all intents and purposes was my main reason for being here) and then I manned the booth to meet potential customers as they walked through the exhibits. On multiple occasions today as I stood at my booth awaiting someone to walk up the Holy Spirit impressed upon me to pray for divine conversations. I did and sure enough, they happened. (That is the real reason I was here!)
- Divine conversations have a two critical components – a listener who is receptive and a story-teller who is sensitive to the Lord’s leading. I talked business about 85 – 90% of the day, but the 10 – 15% where the Holy Spirit opened the door were amazing. This is an area where I have often erred either being too strong or too soft in my delivery, but today it consistently flowed.
- Our job is not to convert people. Our role is to be obedient to the Lord’s leading and faithfully share from the Word in us and the life experiences He has brought us through. It is the Holy Spirit’s job to bring people to conversion. Yes, there will be times when we are there at the point someone makes a decision to give their life to Christ. This is a glorious experience and true blessing to be a part of, however we do not need to take too much responsibility. Our responsibility is simply to be obedient to the Holy Spirit’s prompting.
- This life is a prelude to something greater, something more real. It is the door through which we pass to get to our ultimate home. This life is not inconsequential, but it is also not our ultimate destiny. The relationships we have here are the one thing that appears to have a link on through to eternity. That belief helps me to hold onto the things of this life lightly, the relationships in this life more firmly, and the faith in Jesus most tightly.
It was a God-day and a great day. I was able to hear other people’s stories, engage them where they were, and in a number of instances share God’s love through telling God-stories. I sit here with a light and joyful spirit thinking of how good God is to allow us to participate with Him in His work to reach people wherever they are and draw them closer to Himself. He is soooo good!
I pray you have a day full of divine conversations. Be blessed and be a blessing!
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