The most difficult care conversations are those where people have lost hope. Hope is an anchor. Hope keeps us from being lost when the storms of life break over us and threaten to destroy us. Persons who lose hope are vulnerable to multiple temptations that will only make bad situations worse. The downward spiral that is hopelessness is difficult to break once the path is set. This is when the life-giving words of Jesus are so important to hold on to. Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26 NIV.
Yesterday we prayed with a man whose family has experienced two suicides within the course of a month. This is the ultimate losing hope. Two of my friends then shared nuggets of gold which I want to share with you today. First Doug, a teacher for many years, mentioned an experiment that he has read about. Laboratory mice were subjected to a stress test that measured the impact of hope. The mice were placed in a tank filled with enough water that the mice were forced to swim. For one group of mice the tank was then covered with a box that completely sealed off the light. The average lifespan of the mice in the dark box was 3 minutes before they drowned. The second group of mice were treated the same except for a small hole in the box which allowed a small amount of light to enter the box. The average lifespan of these mice was 36 hours. Such is the power of hope.
As Doug finished, Greg asked if we had a good definition of hope. I think I said it was a belief that things would be better in the future. Greg said hope is H.O.P.E – Holding On to Promises Eternal. My definition could be true, but it could just as easily be the definition for wishful thinking. In reality, that’s what a lot of people accept as hope. But Greg’s definition is tied to something solid… something that has stood the test of time and proven true.
So, I want to share with you some of the Promises Eternal that I know beyond a shadow of a doubt to be true.
“I will never leave you or forsake you.” God speaks this to several people in the bible. He spoke it to me in Sept of 1983 in a small chapel at Camp Hartner in the piney woods of central Louisiana. This is the first and foundational promise of my faith journey. I pitched my anchor trusting it would hold fast in this promise. It has for over 34 years. I am certain it will hold into eternity.
“I know the plans I have for you. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and future.” Jeremiah 29:11. The Lord kept this verse in my thoughts the entire week when I was told my job was eliminated in 2007.
‘So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. ‘ Isaiah 41:10. The Lord clearly gave me this verse as I was about to go to work one morning fully expecting to hear that my team was being downsized.
‘But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. ‘ Matthew 6:33. In this simple admonition, Jesus gave the recipe for prioritizing life which ensures my needs are met. While there have been a few times that my wants went unsatisfied, I’ve never missed anything of significant value. One of the things I’ve learned about “wants” is they usually have a great big “I” in the middle of them and they don’t advance God’s purposes in my life or the life of those around me. Yet with a few unfulfilled wants, there have been numerous times when God’s blessings have absolutely overflowed into my life and the lives of those I know and love.
‘Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”‘ Matthew 11:28-30. I’ve lost track of the number of times I’ve “limped home” to hear the Father whisper the words “Rest in Me.” He has always carried the bulk of the load. At times I’ve attempted to shoulder more than I was supposed to and forge on in my strength. Yet in His gracious mercy, He has always been right there to step in as soon as I realize my error and lean into Him.
‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.’ Proverbs 3:5-6. Again there have been times when I’ve gotten focused upon my plan, my work, my way that I’ve lost track of God’s call and purpose. But He is faithful to His promise here and when I turn to Him fully committing my heart and ways to Him, He has always, ALWAYS been there to guide and direct me.
‘Delight yourself also in the Lord , And He shall give you the desires of your heart.’ Psalms 37:4. I’ve learned that deepening my relationship with the Lord – delighting in Him, has been the greatest blessing of life. At times I can clearly see how martyrs and the persecuted saints through the ages have been able to worship God even in the face of intense personal pain and suffering. He gives eyes to see things unseen. He causes our hearts to know of things eternal. He changes our heart so that His desires become our desires. He accomplishes those things that will bring about His glory and our joy.
I meant to keep this to a short post, but I have failed again. Please forgive me. While I am just getting warmed up, I know it is time to sign off for today. Before I do, I would be remiss not to emphasize, these are your promises too. God loves with an overwhelming love. He has written His love story for you as well as for me. Every promise of God is true and you can rely on them. Wherever you are in life, you can pitch your anchor into God’s Promises Eternal and that anchor will hold. Jesus gave His life for you and He gives His promises to you. That my friend is HOPE. That my friend is for you.
Blessings to you today.
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