This week I have had the opportunity to meet a sweet young woman who is battling cancer. She is a single mom with three children under the age of 10. We are partnering with her work family to take her meals, to visit with her, and pray. Needless to say, she has been a primary topic of conversation with the Father this week. A couple days ago as I was praying, the story of Jesus healing a woman with a chronic bleeding disorder came to mind. The story is found in both Mark and Luke’s gospels. Here it is from Luke.
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Spiritual Gifts – Understanding Spiritual Gifts and learning to use the gifts God has given us for His Purpose and Glory.
Posted in Church, God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Spiritual Growth, The Father, Vision, tagged Body of Christ, Bride of Christ, Christianity, Church, gifts, God's love, spiritual gifts, spiritual growth, Transformation, truth on November 23, 2016| Leave a Comment »
Before launching into this study, I want to put it into context. Sadly, the spiritual gifts can be a controversial topic within the Church. There are two extremes we can take which, if we hold too tightly to, can cause us to miss the ultimate purpose of the spiritual gifts, which is to build up the Body of Christ and to draw unbelievers. (See 1 Corinthians 14)
On one hand, we can de-spiritualize the gifts of the Spirit to the point that they are simply natural human traits and capabilities maximized. In this view we take something that is manifestly a supernatural empowerment of the Holy Spirit and turn it into an ability that we train and build up purely through regular exercise.
On the other hand, we can over-spiritualize the gifts of the Spirit to the extent that every manifestation of the gifts must be connected to an ecstatic event. We work ourselves up into such a spiritually-heightened state that we are finally ready for the Holy Spirit to fall on us and the mighty works of God can begin.
These extremes are not so much false as they are simply much too narrow to capture God’s purpose in giving the Gifts of the Spirit. Additionally, these extremes fail to adequately capture the experience within the breadth of the Body today. The Church and it’s 2 billion adherents experience God’s grace sufficient for life in a broad range of environments and circumstances. God is continuing His work around the world drawing people to Himself out of every nation, tribe, and people group. And He does this through His people being obedient to the leading of the Holy Spirit, empowered by the Holy Spirit, and responding to the Holy Spirit. The work is a collaborative effort between the Spirit of God and the people of God yielded to the Holy Spirit. Our yielded-ness leads to the Holy Spirit moving in us to accomplish great and mighty things. Many times that manifests itself in the spiritual gifts. That is what this study is about.
This blog is from the notes I pulled together for our home group study. I used a few on-line resources (which I will note at different points in the paper) and copious hours reading and praying over the scriptures. I have been overjoyed to find new insights in the Word as the Lord expanded my understanding of spiritual gifts, particularly with respect to the source and foundation of why He gives them.
For the study, I usually began with general questions to draw us into topic, followed by more directed questions related to the text we were studying. It is my intent to leave this to aid others who might want to expand upon this for their own study.
A final disclaimer. Many years ago I entered a bit of a longer fast seeking God’s direction in my life. I was ready and willing to go into ministry if that’s what the Lord wanted. At the end of those three days, the Lord spoke very clearly to me. He said, “Son, I’ve not called you to be a preacher. I’ve not called you to be a teacher. I’ve called you to be a man of prayer. You will preach and you will teach, but first and foremost, you are to be a man of prayer.”
That was around 25 years ago. I have seen those words played out perfectly in the meantime. As I share this with you, I do so with a sincere sense that the Lord has made this one of the times when I have been called upon to teach. Recognizing that teaching is one of the gifts I scored a middle-of-the-pack score on (Spiritual Gifts survey which I will identify later in the study), I can rightly assume that whatever good comes from this is due to the Holy Spirit enlivening it in me and in the reader. Fortunately, these are spiritual gifts and as such God is able to do abundantly, amazingly, above all we can ask or imagine. I sit here confident and overflowing with thankfulness that this is true.
Key Chapters Discussing Spiritual Gifts
Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4
List of Spiritual Gift Possibilities in Key Bible Passages (italics indicates a gift repeated in other places in scripture)
Romans 12
exhortation, giving, leadership, mercy, prophecy, service, teaching
1 Corinthians 12
administration, apostle, discernment, faith, healings, helps – service, knowledge, miracles, prophecy, teaching, tongues, interpretation of tongues. wisdom
Ephesians 4
apostle, evangelism, pastor, prophecy, teaching
Misc. Passages (the following are implied as gifts in other scriptures)
celibacy, hospitality, martyrdom, missionary, voluntary poverty
OTHER GIFTS FROM THE LORD
Salvation, Church, Family, The conveniences He provides.
Lesson One
(Select two or three of these questions for ice-breakers to lead into today’s discussion)
What is your favorite gift-giving event? What makes it your favorite?
What is one gift you have received that you value above all others?
What is a particularly memorable gift you have received? What made it so memorable?
Any stories of gift-giving gone wrong?
What is the purpose behind giving and receiving gifts?
How about with spiritual gifts?
Have you given a gift and had it received poorly? How did you feel?
Have you ever received a gift poorly?
What are gifts?
Transfer of an item from one who has or possesses the means to have something to one who does not currently have.
Transfer of ownership of something.
Freely released into the ownership of the other.
To be a true gift, there needs to be a recognition that the thing received is desirous and good.
For a gift to be good it must be “unwrapped”, appreciated, and used.
Gifts most often come from ones who care for us and want us to experience good things and to be happy.
Some gifts are given to us to help us be more functional and to accomplish specific tasks.
Is there timing associated with gifts?
Times of gift giving – Birthdays, Christmas, Easter, Anniversaries, Graduations, Baby Showers, Weddings
Some gifts have an “expiration”, i.e. like a bouquet of cut flowers, a new car. Some gifts have a lifetime legacy – a deed of land, a wedding ring, a poem written in honor of another.
Some gift-givers are extremely generous and continue to give and give and give.
Some gift receivers are very appreciative. Some gift receivers are never satisfied.
Receiving with thankfulness and true appreciation engenders greater goodwill between the giver and receiver.
Receiving gifts with dissatisfaction or grumbling or without thankfulness damages the relationship between the giver and the receiver.
Romans 12
To be read in context of the whole chapter.
What is the first gift offered in chapter 12? Verse 1 – our bodies as living sacrifices.
How is this sacrifice received? We don’t determine this, but Paul tells us when we set ourselves apart unto God it is “holy and pleasing to God”. He also affirms that this giving of ourselves is our true and proper worship.
What are the “personal” reciprocal gifts that we receive if we continue to give ourselves to the Lord? (verse 2)
Transformation, a renewed mind, clarity in knowing God’s will.
What are the “communal” gifts that we receive if we continue to give ourselves to the Lord? (verses 6-8)
Part of the body of Christ, prophesy, serving, teaching, encouragement, generosity, leadership, mercy / care-giving.
Are there any pre-requisites to receiving these communal gifts? (verse 3)
Humility (do not think more highly of yourself than you ought), sober judgment, faith
Take time to make the distinction of the supernatural element of these gifts if they flow from sacrificial living leading to transformed people with renewed minds, living together in humble faith while exercising sober judgment about themselves.
What is the outcome of this gift giving, particularly when it entails all members of the body of Christ exercising their communal gifts? (verses 9-21)
Sincere love one to another.
A true rejection of what is evil with an active passion to fight against it.
A passionate embrace of what is good.
Devotion one to another… hugs and warm affection manifested, expressing genuine love. Lives intertwined and supportive.
Honoring one another – accomplishments celebrated, faithfulness recognized, high-fives all around.
The zeal of the Lord present and richly manifested in lives devoted to Him, to one another, and to whatever work He has called us to at that time.
Joy even when circumstances are not exactly what we would want because hope is so rich and tangible.
Patience even when we are in the midst of affliction. (I picture the body, particularly those with the gift of care-giving, rallying around the one suffering the greatest.)
Faithful intercession and prayer that moves mountains, breaks chains, heals wounds, and accomplishes God’s purpose, in God’s way, in God’s perfect timing.
Greed is gone as the body supports and shares with one another freely, especially those with the gift of generosity. A point here – those with this gift also often have the uncanny ability to make money. I think this may be either an aspect of the gift of generosity or simply a manifestation of the law of reciprocity where Jesus said, “Give and it will be given to you.”
Kindness, a supernatural love for and active reaching out to those who do not share our belief or faith. In fact, it is a love for those who actively work against us.
Empathy manifested in every life situation.
Unity and harmony that is genuine and from the heart. This absolutely transcends social status, education, age, race – and any other potential source of division.
The rejection of evil to the point that we do not respond in kind, but rather we are motivated by love and our response is what life within the body of Christ would approve of and support.
Peaceful living, with the full recognition that those not in the body might not live in peace nor want to allow us to do so. Yet we seek peace.
Our response to evil’s attack is to seek to do good while trusting in God to be our shield, our shelter, and our defender.
Prior to this study I have always tended to read the bible with a strong awareness of the textual divisions that editors have inserted. Romans 12 includes three different divisions… verses 1-2 are under the heading “A Living Sacrifice”, verses 3-8 are “Humble Service in the Body of Christ”, and verses 9-21 are “Love in Action”. While these textual divisions are often helpful, they can also cause us to overlook some important connections the author may have had in mind. Reading this chapter without those divisions leads us to see a flow that I believe Paul meant for the reader to grasp.
Before we focus on chapter 12, let’s take one step back and place this chapter into context of the entire letter to the Romans. Romans is written to a part of the church Paul has not yet personally visited. In this letter Paul provides a succinct explanation of the love and grace of God manifested through the sacrificial life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Through these early chapters we can trace God’s plan of salvation as Paul describes the ultimate gift of God giving His Son… of Jesus giving His life for us. Paul paints with words God giving over and above anything we could deserve or even imagine comes through.
When we hit chapter 8 we see this new “life in the Spirit” which is available to all who are followers of Jesus. This too is a magnanimous gift from a gracious and loving Father. By the time we reach chapter 12 we have had the point driven home again and again – God has given us such a stunning abundance of grace and goodness. This is the first “giving”.
In chapter 12 we then see giving taking place in three rapid bursts. The first is in verses 1-2 where we give ourselves to God. This is a call to total abandonment. Paul has used old testament imagery throughout the previous chapters so when he speaks of a living sacrifice here, he is tying it to the old testament understanding of sacrifice being a complete giving over. The only difference is as “living” sacrifices we get the honor of repeatedly deciding to completely give ourselves over to God.
The second giving is God giving spiritual gifts for the edification and building up of the Body. I will speak about it more later, but I want to clearly state it here – the primary purpose of the spiritual gifts is the building up of the Body of Christ, but building up of the individual believer happens at the same time. God is the ultimate multi-tasker. In dispersing His gifts, He accomplishes many things as the Body, and the individual, receives and responds.
Then comes the third giving which is the one I had always missed. That is the Body of Christ becoming a radiant, shining example of God’s goodness, grace, and love to the world that does not yet know Him. We become God’s gift to the lost and unbelieving. Through this, people are drawn to look to Him, to consider the claims of the Church, and to come to faith.
In conclusion to this week’s lesson, we see that God initiates the giving through giving Jesus as our savior. We respond by giving ourselves to Him as our Lord. He then continues giving by working transformation in us and by giving spiritual gifts to the Church. The final giving is the Church being given to the world as a manifestly beautiful and attractive “Bride of Christ”. This final giving includes an invitation to all who have not yet accepted Christ to join the fellowship of believers by receiving God’s initial gift of His Son – Jesus.
In our next lesson, we will investigate the ultimate source of God’s gift giving – His amazing love.
Until next time, may the God of all good gifts pour His Spirit out upon you, filling you with His wisdom, His truth, and His love. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Hope
Posted in God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Prayer, Responsibility, The Father, tagged Care Team, care-giving, Christianity, faith, holy spirit, hope, Jesus, love, newspring, truth on October 11, 2016| Leave a Comment »
I serve on the Care Team at Church. We meet people with God’s love and give them hope. I feel called to this. But it’s not always easy.
From the conversations I have I see that Hope is a commodity often in short supply. Usually the visit for care is the result of multiple crises in a person’s life. Often it is the result of personal decisions combined with events outside their control. Almost always there is some degree of loss that precedes the loss of hope… decline in health, the passing of a loved one, a job loss, a broken relationship… The end result is that the initial loss precipitates a void wherein hope is drained from the individual.
Our goal in Care is very simple. We seek to allow the Lord to work through us to help the Care Receiver know that Jesus loves and cares for them. It is amazing how He does this. Empathy is our connection point. Often the Father matches life experiences that the Caregivers have walked through with the challenges the Care Receiver is facing. This empathy is more than just important, it is essential in being a conduit of God’s love and hope. We do not theorize, postulate, or pontificate, but rather we seek to be like Jesus and know the person as a valued child of God. With this relationship established we are able to take the next step.
With sensitivity to the Holy Spirit and an attitude of love, we seek to help the individual identify the root of the loss. In most cases there are decisions that have been made that need to be understood. While we seek to deal gently with the broken, we do not treat sin lightly. It is vitally important that sin be clearly identified and labeled as what it is. While not all poor decisions are necessarily sin, those that are must be confessed and repented of. The Word of God is the key here. With Love we share what the Bible says and let the Holy Spirit do the rest. (Sidenote – It appears to me that where we Christians gain a black eye in the public realm is when we take on the role of prosecuting attorney for God. Don’t get me wrong, we are to flee from sin, to resist the devil, and do all in our power to promote what is good, decent, and godly. But if we simply speak the truth from the Word of God, we can leave the emphasizing of what that means to the Holy Spirit.)
Where it is possible, attempts to undo the damage of the sin are appropriate. Restitution is a bold, and often beneficial step in the process of repentance. When I became a believer there was a person I had wronged in my college days. The Lord impressed upon me that I had a concrete step to take with that person so I drove 600 miles for a face-to-face confession of my sin and to ask for forgiveness. At the time I was just trying to be obedient to what I understood the Lord was showing me I needed to do. Today I recognize that it was a major step in my growth as a believer which freed me to be ready for what lay ahead.
Many times forgiveness is a key act in the repentance and healing process. One of the diabolical aspects of sin is that the victim is often the one who ends up bound in cords of unforgiveness. There is great liberty in forgiving someone who has done you wrong. I have had a few “done unto” events and I can honestly say that the Lord has blessed me, not in spite of those things, but through those events after I forgave and then gave the situation to Him. This is something I have personally experienced and it is essential in the healing process. (Truth in writing, the forgiving part requires persistence. The enemy will initially bring the event back up to try and revive the pain and emotional turmoil. This is a good time to rebuke the thought and repeat your decision to forgive and verbalize that it is in the Lord’s hands.)
This post is about hope, but it is necessary to understand that hope is a tender flower that requires the proper soil. What I have described above is required to prepare the soil of the heart to receive the seed of hope. Make no mistake, hope will not flourish in the wrong environment. There is a plethora of hope-killers waiting to stamp out the flower of hope, but Jesus’ words should encourage us – “Fear not, for I have overcome the world.” He is the MASTER Gardener and the Giver of Hope.
Which brings us to the next step – sharing the Word of Life. The bible is full of God’s promises. In caregiving this is an apt time to share words that speak into the Care Receiver’s life situation. Frequently after a conversation I stand amazed at how the Lord brought the right scripture to mind at the perfect time in a conversation. It is important to regularly read the Word so that it performs its transformative work in you (Romans 12:1-2) and becomes the source of your wisdom to share with others. The final piece of this is the active work of the Holy Spirit to bring to mind the right word for us to speak and then apply that word in the Care Receiver’s life.
This leads to the climatic step in Care Giving – Prayer. I’ve mentioned speaking and verbalizing a couple of times already. I’m prompted today to mention that it is often necessary to speak things into existence. The bible begins with God speaking all of creation into existence. Through the Old Testament we see God putting His words into the mouths of His prophets. When Jesus walked the earth He spoke and people were changed, healed, delivered, saved. He even spoke to the wind and waves and they obeyed Him. He is the Lord God Almighty. To Him every knee shall bow and every tongue will confess (Phil 2:9-11). Now for a time He has chosen in His great mercy to give mankind a little more time to turn to Him. In this window we do not yet see everything under the heavens fully submitted to Him. But make no mistake, it is all under His dominion.
As believers God has placed His Holy Spirit into us. We are His ambassadors. An ambassador is a representative of a sovereign nation living and residing in a foreign land. Even though they live in a different country, the full weight of their home country rests upon them. When they speak, they are speaking for their home country. As Christ’s ambassadors, empowered by the Holy Spirit, we are to speak God’s Word and His words into lives. Prayer is how we do this. God gives us the responsibility and privilege of praying what He wants to do in the lives of those He sends our way. The enormity and mystery of this overwhelms me, but I have experienced it too many times to ignore or discount.
The final step is living out the hope which God has called us to dispense. In some instances, it will mean we walk with the Care Receiver for a time, for a season, or as life-long friends. In other instances, it will mean praying for and encouraging them for just that intersection of time, trusting the Lord to continue the good work He has begun. In every situation though, God has called us to look to Him in child-like trust and nurture the hope that He promises us in His word and He places in our heart.
A final application. Please forgive me ahead of time for this final inclusion, but it is a burden I’ve been bearing for several weeks now. It is also the primary reason I haven’t blogged in a while. You see, I, like a lot of Americans, am disappointed in what I see in our political process. It wearies me to see the division and acrimony blasted forth for all to see and endure. I do not see hope there. I have chosen a candidate to vote for, but it is more because I see a terrible choice and a little less bad choice. My friend this has tended to get my eyes off the Lord and onto lesser things. This weekend I was able to minister care to others dealing with real world, right now issues and I was able to fellowship with others who love God and are striving to live lives of abundant hope. In so doing I saw my malady for what it was. I was being drawn to put at least a portion of my faith in things that are not worthy of my faith, nor able to give real hope.
And then I lifted my eyes… Jesus is the only one worthy of my total faith and the only one who gives real hope. And that hope does not disappoint! (Romans 5:1-5)
Two final thoughts. I finished this blog last night, but for some reason I didn’t post it. This morning I woke and called my wife to do our devotion. (I travel a lot in my work so we do our devotion together over the phone each morning.) The following scripture just jumped out at me. It is the exclamation point from the Word on what I have said.
Psalm 62:5-8
Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from Him. Truly He is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; He is my mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in Him at all times, you people; pour out your heart to Him, for God is our refuge.
Today is the one year anniversary of the passing of four of our youngest son’s friends in a tragic car accident. James, Josh, Mills, and Sarah are not here with us any longer. The pain and loss is still very real for their family and friends. But with eyes of faith we look forward to the day when we will see them again. They trusted the Lord and were His children. And one day we too will pass from this life to larger life. And the reunion will be real and it will be good. This is hope that we can hold onto.
Take care my friend. May the Lord richly bless you today as you live a life of tangible hope.
Deficit of Humility
Posted in God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Responsibility, Salvation, Spiritual Growth, The Father, tagged faith, holy spirit, humility, intimacy with the Father, Israel, Jesus, lack of humility, pharaoh, Prayer, pride, Transformation on September 16, 2016| 3 Comments »
God is almost never limited by our lack.
We can lack money and yet God can provide the means for whatever He calls us to do. My thoughts run to a little boy with two fish and five loaves on a remote hillside with Jesus and a crowd of thousands, hungry after a day of teaching and healing.
We can lack strength and yet Paul passes on what Jesus said to Him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” (2Cor 12:9)
We can lack intellect, but God can still use us. I have been in a number of situations where I did not know “the answer” and yet the answer has always come.
But I realized the other day that there is one definite lack on our part that can constrain God… the lack of humility! The lack of humility is powerful, ugly, and spiritually deadly.
There is value in specifically saying “lack of humility” and not simply calling it pride. Being proud of your children, your country, your church can all stray into an unhealthy region, but for the most part these do not capture the attitude that the bible means when it says in a number of places, “God opposes the proud” (James 4:6). The lack of humility is that kind of proud. It is a cancer that sucks the life out of relationships, beginning with our relationship with the Father.
God loves us and He wants us to live in intimacy with Him. The level of intimacy God desires is predicated upon mutual love, trust, and honesty. Coming clean about every aspect of our life – from acts done or not done, words uttered or not uttered, even thoughts we’ve harbored requires a humility and honesty that does not come easily to us. In fact it often requires a degree of divine support to achieve. But He is near to us to lend us this help if we but bend our hearts toward Him in humility.
As I consider what this humility looks like several pictures come to mind. A child listening in rapt attention and a teachable spirit… a parent returning from deployment falling on their knees and embracing their family… a “terminally” ill patient who is given a new lease on life. God is the giver of all good gifts. As He gives what He desires (which is always better than what we deserve) we should recognize the opportunity to give thanks and receive with humility all that the Lord wants for us. Often, it is in these moments that He will speak wisdom into our lives that we can’t hear otherwise.
This morning I awoke with a very clear picture of what the lack of humility looks like. It is one of the formational stories of the nation of Israel and it is found in the 2nd book of the bible, Exodus. What had begun as a flight to sanctuary at the end of the Genesis had become servitude and slavery 400 years later. The Pharaoh’s government had become a hard task-master and the people of Israel were crying out for deliverance. God raised up Moses to serve as His human voice. The message to Pharaoh was simple, “Let my people go.” But Pharaoh, who was considered a god in that culture, refused. Time and again God sent signs of His power and authority to convince Pharaoh and give Him the opportunity to bend His will to the Lord Almighty. But Pharaoh would not. The bible says that God hardened Pharaoh’s heart.
Friends, this is a vital spiritual truth. The longer and harder we resist the Lord, the more difficult it becomes to respond to Him. It is not that God’s love is not there nor is it that He won’t accept us. The issue is that until we are humble enough to acknowledge that He is God and we are not, we can’t bend our knee to Him and submit to the foundational truth of faith that God is the great “I AM”, the wholly, Holy Other. While I am thrilled that my heavenly Father loves me and desires to fellowship with me, it never changes the fact that He is the LORD God Almighty, the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.
The lack of humility can keep a person from accepting Christ, God’s provision to reconcile fallen humans with Himself. But it can also rear it’s ugly head after conversion and stifle the spiritual growth the Lord intends for His children. When I consider my faith walk, I can see how the lack of humility was a key factor in many of the lulls.
The message of today’s post is simple. Take a moment to examine your life. Do you have a deficit of humility that is limiting your relationship with God and others? Are you thankful for the small gifts of grace you receive or are you disappointed because you feel slighted in some way? Is God actively speaking to you and using you for positive change or is it quiet when you call out to Him? If any of these answers make you realize that you have a deficit of humility, congratulations! Recognizing this is the hardest step. Turn to God with your whole heart, acknowledge your sin (if you haven’t already figured it out, the lack of humility is a sin), accept His Lordship over you, and begin to walk in fresh fellowship with the Holy Spirit.
The limits of our intellect do not in any way limit God’s ability to use us. The limits of our humility constrain how, and how much God can work in and through us. Choose humility and throw off those constraints. Reach for the Father’s hand and talk a walk with the One Who loves you to the uttermost. You will be so happy that you did.
Be blessed my friend and be a blessing to those the Lord puts in your life today.
A Silence Too Quiet
Posted in Beautiful Places, God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Photography, Prayer, Spiritual Growth, The Father, Worship, tagged forgiveness, hearing God, holy spirit, Jesus, nature photography, photography, sin, spiritual growth, Sunrise, sunrise pictures, sunset, sunset pictures, worship on June 21, 2016| Leave a Comment »
At some point in our lives, most of us want to hear God speak directly to us, directly into our life situation. I am convinced that intimacy with God is our highest calling. What Adam had in the garden before the Fall is a picture of what life in Christ can become… intimate, familiar, loving, without secrets or shame, the PERFECT relationship. But for almost all of us we are still a long, long ways from it.
If intimacy with God is our highest calling, then why do we struggle so with achieving it? Why is it that we don’t hear about or see where God is speaking to people regularly? Why does my prayer life feel more like a one sided conversation than a dialog? Why is the silence so quiet?
A conversation this weekend has brought this question into my spirit and I have been wrestling with it for three days now. While I suspect there may be other reasons, I have insight into some of the reasons and a path through a season of silence that may be beneficial for you.
Let’s begin with the order of priorities God has for us. The most important thing God has for us is to know Him. That is priority #1. Not knowing ABOUT Him, but knowing Him. He sent Jesus to earth to engage humanity face to face, skin to skin, heart to heart. Jesus’ life on planet earth was brief – 30 or so years, but in God’s providential plan, He inspired the writing of the Word which not only fleshes out the “God Story” for the billions of us who did not get to know Him in the flesh, but creates the pathway to meet and truly know Him. Also in His plan, Jesus’ resurrection means Jesus is alive. If He is alive then He is knowable. At my conversion, I believe Jesus was right there with me, talking to me, offering me life in Him. When I accepted, He placed His Holy Spirit within me and I was changed. I know it. I felt it. Others saw it and commented on it. It really happened. Now humanity’s enemy, the bible calls Him Satan, has periodically tried to convince me otherwise. Most of His attempts have been to get my eyes off Jesus, my spiritual ears from listening to the Holy Spirit, and my actions away from intimacy with God. Those times I have been diverted, quiet ensued. This brings me to the first reason we may enter a time of silence in our relationship with the Lord.
Spiritual warfare is a reality. The enemy actively fights against God. The children of God, believers who have been saved through faith in Christ, are at the frontline of that war. There are many similarities in warfare we see and what goes on in the spiritual realm, but I want to focus upon one aspect – communication. Knowing the battle plan and keeping in touch with command is vital in battle. This is often hard to do, particularly when the fight is intense and the din of battle drowns out all other sound. Spiritual warfare will have times when we are getting hit with any number of assaults. The good news is our Lord God is the ultimate Commander in Chief. He has both a plan and resources to win the war and bring us through the battle. When we are in the battle, we may not clearly hear Him, but we can trust Him. We make our requests, we hold our position, and we do what we know from His Word we are to do. In the absence of a clear word from the Lord, we trust the Word of the Lord and the last thing He told us to do. And we hold on. We also look for reinforcements. This would be Godly friends who can come alongside us in the fight. Ones who will join us in the battle. Ones who will also be communicating with our Commander, the Lord God Almighty, about our needs. Scriptures for this are 2Cor 10:3-5 and Eph 6:10-18.
Reason 2.
On-going sin. Jesus died to pay the penalty for our sins – all of them. God in His wisdom has given us a role to play in our salvation. We repent – we turn away from sin and turn to God. There are many things that can be said about why sin is such an evil thing, but for the sake of this discussion I’m going to focus upon just one aspect. From where we stand sin lies in the opposite direction of God. If we choose to run after sin, we are turning our back on God. Have you ever noticed the orientation of our ears? They are cupped forward. This allows the capture and amplification of sounds in front of us. This also provides a degree of shielding from sound waves coming from behind us. This is a physical picture of a spiritual truth. When we turn away from God, it becomes much more difficult to hear God’s voice calling us back to Him. That which we are facing grows louder and more strident. The voice of God grows harder to hear. And God seldom shouts. Hopefully I can come back to that theme in another post. God can and will shout, but it is the exception rather than the rule. His gentle whisper and subtle nudges are the norm.
The remedy when on-going sin causes us to lose awareness of God’s voice is simple, if not necessarily easy. Cease the sin immediately, repent, confess, and seek the Lord’s help through Godly friends and counselors who can help you take your next steps. In this I have seen an accountability partner provide tremendous benefits. God works through His people in the healing process.
Reason 3.
Emotional wounds not dealt with. My understanding of God is that He has saved me utterly and completely. My experience has been that in a few cases God walks me through the healing of damage created by sin, my sin and the sins others have done to me, over time. Although I have been a believer for 30+ years, there are still times of periodic cleansing, teaching, and healing that He does in me years after I felt Him power-wash my soul. I am getting into an area that still holds a degree of mystery for me, but I have seen this at work in my life and in others. God will choose to heal some things from our past years into our walk with Him. The forgiveness has long since been applied, but sometimes God wants to heal the scars. In some cases our stuffed hurt actually encases a bit of poison that must be removed. If the Lord wants to do the healing, our role is to allow Him, the Great Physician, to do surgery. Covering it up, holding it in, saying it doesn’t exist does not further the Lord’s work in this area. Giving it to the Lord, confessing and lifting it up to Him, is the right thing to do. One of the areas I have seen this frequently take place is for people who have been victimized by sexual sin. Opening up about this to a caring and wise counselor is a one of the most benefical steps in the healing process.
Reason 4.
Our unrealized expectations of God leading to a “God Grudge”. An unfortunate situation often occurs when a person comes to faith. A well-meaning soul will tell the new convert something like, “You are changed and your life will be rich, full, and exciting because you are a Christian.” While there are many blessings that come with being a Christ-follower, absence from life’s difficulties is not one of them. In fact, when we immerse ourselves into living a fully surrendered life we will experience times of need that lead us into greater dependence upon Him. Sadly many believers reach a point where their expectations are not met, but rather than seeking Godly counsel, they bottle up the disappointment and trudge on. Over time and as more unrealized expectations occur, a God Grudge develops.
I have seen this and been fortunate enough to speak words of encouragement to people to help them identify the source of their grudge and help them take it to God. He already knows we are holding it. He just wants us to admit it and then give it to him. I can think of five situations where the persons took this step of faith and within a month a break-through in the natural realm of a long-standing problem was manifested. Intimacy requires honesty. God can handle our honesty. We just need to be open to what He has to say back to us. Psalm 51 resonates for Reasons 2 – 4.
Reason 5.
Disobedience to what the Lord has said. I know that disobedience to the Lord is sin, but I want to zero in on disobedience to God’s personal word to us. I shared my most poignant and painful example of this in a post last summer. https://areliablefaith.wordpress.com/2015/06/23/responding-to-the-nudge/. In this story I share how I rationalized my way out of obedience to the Holy Spirit’s nudge and the consequences were significant. This example and some lesser periods of waffling when presented with promptings from the Lord have clearly shown me that quiet ensues when we ignore what the Lord tells us.
Our Pastor has shared this with us as well. “Have you done the last thing I told you?” This is the question the Lord has laid on his heart when he has tried to maintain a dialog, while not being fully obedient to the last thing the Lord told Him to do. I admit to the same thing. A few years back I went through an extended time where the Lord repeatedly brought the same scripture to my mind as I prayed. It wasn’t until I obeyed the practical application of that scripture that my prayer life moved forward.
God is not into superficiality. There is no façade that works. Obedience is essential if we desire unhindered dialog with the Lord.
Reason 6.
We are to wait. This one is perhaps the most common for me. And it really only becomes an issue when we get our priorities backwards. At the beginning I said our #1 priority is to Know the Lord. For the finite to know the Infinite takes all our life and at the end we will still fall far short of knowing God fully. But that is what God desires and has called us to. Part of the process for getting to know the Lord is that we walk in our second priority which is: Know and Do the Things God Wants Us to Do. Life spent being where God wants and doing what God created us to do is a life well lived. However, our “doing for God” can usurp our first priority – Knowing God. When this happens we can get out of the Lord’s whisper range and we can move into the realm of silence.
I have fallen into this pit more than once. I am an active person. I also tend toward being a workaholic. I struggled to type that because in my mind I am just thorough, but my wife and others have pointed this out with enough examples that I cannot deny it. It is not uncommon for me to get involved in a good thing but fail to take the time to validate it against the Lord’s leading. Being over-committed to good things invariably leads to being under-committed to the best things.
The solution here is pretty simple. Make the #1 priority the #1 priority. Isaiah 40:31 is on the spot. “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. The shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run and not grow weary. They shall walk and not faint.”
If we seek first God and His righteousness, then we put ourselves in position to hear, to learn, and to move when He says move. For me waiting is manifested in a number of ways, but let me share my primary few.
1) Rising early with the bible, a cup of coffee, and a heart to enjoy anything new that I perceive is from the Lord. This may be a new insight in the scripture. It could be a person the Lord brings to mind that I pray for. It is often an idea that rumbles around in my Spirit picking up scriptural ties that becomes a blog post.
2) Attending worship with the sole intention of lifting up adoration and praise unto the One Who is worthy of every last bit of praise I have to give. There was a time in my life when I had to listen to a number of praise songs, concentrating on their lyrics before I moved into deep worship. I seem to have moved to a place where I come expectant and ready to commune with the Father in worship. This is awesome within our church, but it now occurs regularly whenever I listen to praise and worship.
3) Serving others has become a source of blessing for me. I have found that in praying for and caring for others, I become more sensitive to the Lord nudging me, prompting me, leading me. I know Who the answer is and so in listening to others in need, I am open to the Holy Other speaking life and hope to them. Sometimes it may be through me. Sometimes it may be through another in the conversation. But I have consistently seen the Lord minister. My role is to simply wait, be open and receptive, and do or say what I believe He leads me to do or say.
4) Out in nature – particularly at sunrise or sunset. For this one I generally am simply swept up into the awesomeness of Who God is… Creator, Sustainor, Artist, Master Designer, intimate Friend, Loving Father – and worship ensues. The utterences of my heart flow unbidden to the throne of grace. Sometimes I sense something specific in my Spirit. Always I receive the Lord’s refreshing.
I know this has been a long post. I hope and pray it has been encouraging for you. The Father loves you and He has a message for you. Seek Him and He will speak to you. Jeremiah 33:3, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.”
In closing I share a few of my favorite pics from my sunrise and sunset devotions. Be blessed my friend and allow the Father’s blessing to flow in, through, and around you to in rich abundance.
Like the Wind
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There is a friend of a friend who has come to a place where he can no longer embrace a faith in God. He told his spouse that he loves her and he will attend church with her if she wants him to, but she needs to know he is doing it for her, not because he believes. His primary reason – there are simply too many unanswered questions.
I like the honesty… if it is truly the honest response of a searching person. However, it may be that he is trying to put the infinite God, Who wants us to come to Him by faith, into a box. If he is seeking a nice, safe, fully understandable god, then he is not really looking for the Creator God… the infinite God of the universe… the God of absolute justice and total love.
Frankly, God doesn’t want to be understood; He wants to be known… to be experienced. He will not subject Himself to our experiments. He won’t fit into a test tube. I am an engineer, a scientific person. Admittedly I wanted, and still sometimes try to, define God in terms that make sense to me. This is not wrong. But it will always be limited and fall short of capturing Who the Infinite Other really is.
I have experienced God. Baby steps of faith grew to the point that I went all in and committed my whole life to Jesus several years ago. God entered my life that September day in 1983 and I suddenly knew that He was real. It was not theoretical. It was not a faith of straining to do the right things. It was an overwhelming reality that God’s Spirit had taken up residence in me and was beginning the process of changing me for the better.
I have been thinking about and praying for this friend of a friend for several weeks now. In a couple weeks I am going to meet him for lunch. I will try to answer some of his questions. But I know that answers to his questions are not what he truly needs.
I have thought about the wind the last few times I was praying for this friend. I can give a scientific definition of wind… the movement of air from a higher pressure area to a lower pressure area. But for a person who has never been outside to feel a cool breeze or walked on the sea shore and experienced the tangy, salty wind blowing in from the ocean, my scientific definition is of little value. They get much closer to grasping what wind is by seeing it’s affect… trees swaying in the winds of a storm, coastal trees permanently shaped by sea breezes, snow drifts, and clouds moving.
Ultimately they will only begin to really understand what wind is by stepping outside and experiencing it.
Jesus used wind in one of His most famous illustrations. He was talking to Nicodemus, a religious leader who was curious. The conversation was recorded in John’s gospel, Chapter 3:5-8 “Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. You should not be surprised at my saying, ‘you must be born again’. The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it come from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”
My baby steps of faith were bolstered by seeing evidence of God in other people’s lives. I saw the changes and transformation of character that had taken place. I realized that my striving to make me a better person had always seemed to slip back. And then God met me and offered me a new life… a life in Him which had only this promise. “I will never leave you or forsake you.” He said.
Folks, I stepped into the wind that day and I experienced life for the first time. And He has never failed to keep His promise. The life I have lived has been blessed beyond my wildest dreams. I thank the Lord for drawing me to Himself, for pouring His Holy Spirit into me, and for shaping me with the wind of His love that others might see and seek Him out too.
Love you guys. Have a blessed day. And let the Lord bless others through you.


































