This week I have had the opportunity to meet a sweet young woman who is battling cancer. She is a single mom with three children under the age of 10. We are partnering with her work family to take her meals, to visit with her, and pray. Needless to say, she has been a primary topic of conversation with the Father this week. A couple days ago as I was praying, the story of Jesus healing a woman with a chronic bleeding disorder came to mind. The story is found in both Mark and Luke’s gospels. Here it is from Luke.
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Want of Wisdom
Posted in Bible Study, Prayer, Vision, tagged coffee, coffee cup, Proverbs, wisdom on February 8, 2017| Leave a Comment »
As I sit here sipping my morning coffee, reading this morning’s devotion, and asking the Lord for wisdom, a mental picture appeared. This passage is from Proverbs 3:11-20 in the New Living Translation.
As I started praying I had my arms crossed, but somehow that didn’t feel right. I relaxed, opened my arms, and held out my hands palms up. As I did so I felt my spirit open up and I looked heavenward – expectant and ready. I prayed, “Lord fill me with your wisdom.” and the image of my coffee cup came to mind and the thought that a covered cup cannot receive what is poured into it.
Wow, that stung a little. How often do I let distractions, frustrations, and general busyness interfere with wisdom the Father wants to pour into me. More often than I would care to admit. There have been blessed times of God’s breaking through, but as I ponder this word I realize that I must be intentional to slow down, relax, and listen to what the Father wants to say, wants to show me, wants to pour into me. I need to take the lid off and let Him pour.
Like a perfect cup of coffee wisdom feels good… smells good… tastes good. Those who walk in wisdom from on high are a sweet, sweet savor in a world that has lost an appreciation for true wisdom. It is the Father’s desire that His children walk in His wisdom. That wisdom will stand out in a way that draws people to Him. It is wisdom that embraces Jesus and cannot help but speak of His goodness and love. It is wisdom that orders our lives in a different way – forsaking self and putting others first. It is a wisdom that looks toward final outcomes and fulfillment of faith rather than how can I promote myself, meet my own desires, make myself happy.
God’s wisdom – the cross and all that Jesus has done and has promised to do, is described as foolishness to men, but it is the power of God unto Salvation for all who believe. Thank you Lord for your wisdom.
I pray this day that you are able to take the lid off and let God pour into you His wisdom, power and love. These are freely offered to any who would seek Him, who would chose Him and His way. Take the lid off and receive.
Blessings to you today my friend. And as you receive His blessings allow Him to pour His wisdom, power, and love through you unto others.
Hope
Posted in God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Prayer, Responsibility, The Father, tagged Care Team, care-giving, Christianity, faith, holy spirit, hope, Jesus, love, newspring, truth on October 11, 2016| Leave a Comment »
I serve on the Care Team at Church. We meet people with God’s love and give them hope. I feel called to this. But it’s not always easy.
From the conversations I have I see that Hope is a commodity often in short supply. Usually the visit for care is the result of multiple crises in a person’s life. Often it is the result of personal decisions combined with events outside their control. Almost always there is some degree of loss that precedes the loss of hope… decline in health, the passing of a loved one, a job loss, a broken relationship… The end result is that the initial loss precipitates a void wherein hope is drained from the individual.
Our goal in Care is very simple. We seek to allow the Lord to work through us to help the Care Receiver know that Jesus loves and cares for them. It is amazing how He does this. Empathy is our connection point. Often the Father matches life experiences that the Caregivers have walked through with the challenges the Care Receiver is facing. This empathy is more than just important, it is essential in being a conduit of God’s love and hope. We do not theorize, postulate, or pontificate, but rather we seek to be like Jesus and know the person as a valued child of God. With this relationship established we are able to take the next step.
With sensitivity to the Holy Spirit and an attitude of love, we seek to help the individual identify the root of the loss. In most cases there are decisions that have been made that need to be understood. While we seek to deal gently with the broken, we do not treat sin lightly. It is vitally important that sin be clearly identified and labeled as what it is. While not all poor decisions are necessarily sin, those that are must be confessed and repented of. The Word of God is the key here. With Love we share what the Bible says and let the Holy Spirit do the rest. (Sidenote – It appears to me that where we Christians gain a black eye in the public realm is when we take on the role of prosecuting attorney for God. Don’t get me wrong, we are to flee from sin, to resist the devil, and do all in our power to promote what is good, decent, and godly. But if we simply speak the truth from the Word of God, we can leave the emphasizing of what that means to the Holy Spirit.)
Where it is possible, attempts to undo the damage of the sin are appropriate. Restitution is a bold, and often beneficial step in the process of repentance. When I became a believer there was a person I had wronged in my college days. The Lord impressed upon me that I had a concrete step to take with that person so I drove 600 miles for a face-to-face confession of my sin and to ask for forgiveness. At the time I was just trying to be obedient to what I understood the Lord was showing me I needed to do. Today I recognize that it was a major step in my growth as a believer which freed me to be ready for what lay ahead.
Many times forgiveness is a key act in the repentance and healing process. One of the diabolical aspects of sin is that the victim is often the one who ends up bound in cords of unforgiveness. There is great liberty in forgiving someone who has done you wrong. I have had a few “done unto” events and I can honestly say that the Lord has blessed me, not in spite of those things, but through those events after I forgave and then gave the situation to Him. This is something I have personally experienced and it is essential in the healing process. (Truth in writing, the forgiving part requires persistence. The enemy will initially bring the event back up to try and revive the pain and emotional turmoil. This is a good time to rebuke the thought and repeat your decision to forgive and verbalize that it is in the Lord’s hands.)
This post is about hope, but it is necessary to understand that hope is a tender flower that requires the proper soil. What I have described above is required to prepare the soil of the heart to receive the seed of hope. Make no mistake, hope will not flourish in the wrong environment. There is a plethora of hope-killers waiting to stamp out the flower of hope, but Jesus’ words should encourage us – “Fear not, for I have overcome the world.” He is the MASTER Gardener and the Giver of Hope.
Which brings us to the next step – sharing the Word of Life. The bible is full of God’s promises. In caregiving this is an apt time to share words that speak into the Care Receiver’s life situation. Frequently after a conversation I stand amazed at how the Lord brought the right scripture to mind at the perfect time in a conversation. It is important to regularly read the Word so that it performs its transformative work in you (Romans 12:1-2) and becomes the source of your wisdom to share with others. The final piece of this is the active work of the Holy Spirit to bring to mind the right word for us to speak and then apply that word in the Care Receiver’s life.
This leads to the climatic step in Care Giving – Prayer. I’ve mentioned speaking and verbalizing a couple of times already. I’m prompted today to mention that it is often necessary to speak things into existence. The bible begins with God speaking all of creation into existence. Through the Old Testament we see God putting His words into the mouths of His prophets. When Jesus walked the earth He spoke and people were changed, healed, delivered, saved. He even spoke to the wind and waves and they obeyed Him. He is the Lord God Almighty. To Him every knee shall bow and every tongue will confess (Phil 2:9-11). Now for a time He has chosen in His great mercy to give mankind a little more time to turn to Him. In this window we do not yet see everything under the heavens fully submitted to Him. But make no mistake, it is all under His dominion.
As believers God has placed His Holy Spirit into us. We are His ambassadors. An ambassador is a representative of a sovereign nation living and residing in a foreign land. Even though they live in a different country, the full weight of their home country rests upon them. When they speak, they are speaking for their home country. As Christ’s ambassadors, empowered by the Holy Spirit, we are to speak God’s Word and His words into lives. Prayer is how we do this. God gives us the responsibility and privilege of praying what He wants to do in the lives of those He sends our way. The enormity and mystery of this overwhelms me, but I have experienced it too many times to ignore or discount.
The final step is living out the hope which God has called us to dispense. In some instances, it will mean we walk with the Care Receiver for a time, for a season, or as life-long friends. In other instances, it will mean praying for and encouraging them for just that intersection of time, trusting the Lord to continue the good work He has begun. In every situation though, God has called us to look to Him in child-like trust and nurture the hope that He promises us in His word and He places in our heart.
A final application. Please forgive me ahead of time for this final inclusion, but it is a burden I’ve been bearing for several weeks now. It is also the primary reason I haven’t blogged in a while. You see, I, like a lot of Americans, am disappointed in what I see in our political process. It wearies me to see the division and acrimony blasted forth for all to see and endure. I do not see hope there. I have chosen a candidate to vote for, but it is more because I see a terrible choice and a little less bad choice. My friend this has tended to get my eyes off the Lord and onto lesser things. This weekend I was able to minister care to others dealing with real world, right now issues and I was able to fellowship with others who love God and are striving to live lives of abundant hope. In so doing I saw my malady for what it was. I was being drawn to put at least a portion of my faith in things that are not worthy of my faith, nor able to give real hope.
And then I lifted my eyes… Jesus is the only one worthy of my total faith and the only one who gives real hope. And that hope does not disappoint! (Romans 5:1-5)
Two final thoughts. I finished this blog last night, but for some reason I didn’t post it. This morning I woke and called my wife to do our devotion. (I travel a lot in my work so we do our devotion together over the phone each morning.) The following scripture just jumped out at me. It is the exclamation point from the Word on what I have said.
Psalm 62:5-8
Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from Him. Truly He is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God; He is my mighty rock, my refuge. Trust in Him at all times, you people; pour out your heart to Him, for God is our refuge.
Today is the one year anniversary of the passing of four of our youngest son’s friends in a tragic car accident. James, Josh, Mills, and Sarah are not here with us any longer. The pain and loss is still very real for their family and friends. But with eyes of faith we look forward to the day when we will see them again. They trusted the Lord and were His children. And one day we too will pass from this life to larger life. And the reunion will be real and it will be good. This is hope that we can hold onto.
Take care my friend. May the Lord richly bless you today as you live a life of tangible hope.
A Silence Too Quiet
Posted in Beautiful Places, God, Holy Spirit, Jesus Christ, Photography, Prayer, Spiritual Growth, The Father, Worship, tagged forgiveness, hearing God, holy spirit, Jesus, nature photography, photography, sin, spiritual growth, Sunrise, sunrise pictures, sunset, sunset pictures, worship on June 21, 2016| Leave a Comment »
At some point in our lives, most of us want to hear God speak directly to us, directly into our life situation. I am convinced that intimacy with God is our highest calling. What Adam had in the garden before the Fall is a picture of what life in Christ can become… intimate, familiar, loving, without secrets or shame, the PERFECT relationship. But for almost all of us we are still a long, long ways from it.
If intimacy with God is our highest calling, then why do we struggle so with achieving it? Why is it that we don’t hear about or see where God is speaking to people regularly? Why does my prayer life feel more like a one sided conversation than a dialog? Why is the silence so quiet?
A conversation this weekend has brought this question into my spirit and I have been wrestling with it for three days now. While I suspect there may be other reasons, I have insight into some of the reasons and a path through a season of silence that may be beneficial for you.
Let’s begin with the order of priorities God has for us. The most important thing God has for us is to know Him. That is priority #1. Not knowing ABOUT Him, but knowing Him. He sent Jesus to earth to engage humanity face to face, skin to skin, heart to heart. Jesus’ life on planet earth was brief – 30 or so years, but in God’s providential plan, He inspired the writing of the Word which not only fleshes out the “God Story” for the billions of us who did not get to know Him in the flesh, but creates the pathway to meet and truly know Him. Also in His plan, Jesus’ resurrection means Jesus is alive. If He is alive then He is knowable. At my conversion, I believe Jesus was right there with me, talking to me, offering me life in Him. When I accepted, He placed His Holy Spirit within me and I was changed. I know it. I felt it. Others saw it and commented on it. It really happened. Now humanity’s enemy, the bible calls Him Satan, has periodically tried to convince me otherwise. Most of His attempts have been to get my eyes off Jesus, my spiritual ears from listening to the Holy Spirit, and my actions away from intimacy with God. Those times I have been diverted, quiet ensued. This brings me to the first reason we may enter a time of silence in our relationship with the Lord.
Spiritual warfare is a reality. The enemy actively fights against God. The children of God, believers who have been saved through faith in Christ, are at the frontline of that war. There are many similarities in warfare we see and what goes on in the spiritual realm, but I want to focus upon one aspect – communication. Knowing the battle plan and keeping in touch with command is vital in battle. This is often hard to do, particularly when the fight is intense and the din of battle drowns out all other sound. Spiritual warfare will have times when we are getting hit with any number of assaults. The good news is our Lord God is the ultimate Commander in Chief. He has both a plan and resources to win the war and bring us through the battle. When we are in the battle, we may not clearly hear Him, but we can trust Him. We make our requests, we hold our position, and we do what we know from His Word we are to do. In the absence of a clear word from the Lord, we trust the Word of the Lord and the last thing He told us to do. And we hold on. We also look for reinforcements. This would be Godly friends who can come alongside us in the fight. Ones who will join us in the battle. Ones who will also be communicating with our Commander, the Lord God Almighty, about our needs. Scriptures for this are 2Cor 10:3-5 and Eph 6:10-18.
Reason 2.
On-going sin. Jesus died to pay the penalty for our sins – all of them. God in His wisdom has given us a role to play in our salvation. We repent – we turn away from sin and turn to God. There are many things that can be said about why sin is such an evil thing, but for the sake of this discussion I’m going to focus upon just one aspect. From where we stand sin lies in the opposite direction of God. If we choose to run after sin, we are turning our back on God. Have you ever noticed the orientation of our ears? They are cupped forward. This allows the capture and amplification of sounds in front of us. This also provides a degree of shielding from sound waves coming from behind us. This is a physical picture of a spiritual truth. When we turn away from God, it becomes much more difficult to hear God’s voice calling us back to Him. That which we are facing grows louder and more strident. The voice of God grows harder to hear. And God seldom shouts. Hopefully I can come back to that theme in another post. God can and will shout, but it is the exception rather than the rule. His gentle whisper and subtle nudges are the norm.
The remedy when on-going sin causes us to lose awareness of God’s voice is simple, if not necessarily easy. Cease the sin immediately, repent, confess, and seek the Lord’s help through Godly friends and counselors who can help you take your next steps. In this I have seen an accountability partner provide tremendous benefits. God works through His people in the healing process.
Reason 3.
Emotional wounds not dealt with. My understanding of God is that He has saved me utterly and completely. My experience has been that in a few cases God walks me through the healing of damage created by sin, my sin and the sins others have done to me, over time. Although I have been a believer for 30+ years, there are still times of periodic cleansing, teaching, and healing that He does in me years after I felt Him power-wash my soul. I am getting into an area that still holds a degree of mystery for me, but I have seen this at work in my life and in others. God will choose to heal some things from our past years into our walk with Him. The forgiveness has long since been applied, but sometimes God wants to heal the scars. In some cases our stuffed hurt actually encases a bit of poison that must be removed. If the Lord wants to do the healing, our role is to allow Him, the Great Physician, to do surgery. Covering it up, holding it in, saying it doesn’t exist does not further the Lord’s work in this area. Giving it to the Lord, confessing and lifting it up to Him, is the right thing to do. One of the areas I have seen this frequently take place is for people who have been victimized by sexual sin. Opening up about this to a caring and wise counselor is a one of the most benefical steps in the healing process.
Reason 4.
Our unrealized expectations of God leading to a “God Grudge”. An unfortunate situation often occurs when a person comes to faith. A well-meaning soul will tell the new convert something like, “You are changed and your life will be rich, full, and exciting because you are a Christian.” While there are many blessings that come with being a Christ-follower, absence from life’s difficulties is not one of them. In fact, when we immerse ourselves into living a fully surrendered life we will experience times of need that lead us into greater dependence upon Him. Sadly many believers reach a point where their expectations are not met, but rather than seeking Godly counsel, they bottle up the disappointment and trudge on. Over time and as more unrealized expectations occur, a God Grudge develops.
I have seen this and been fortunate enough to speak words of encouragement to people to help them identify the source of their grudge and help them take it to God. He already knows we are holding it. He just wants us to admit it and then give it to him. I can think of five situations where the persons took this step of faith and within a month a break-through in the natural realm of a long-standing problem was manifested. Intimacy requires honesty. God can handle our honesty. We just need to be open to what He has to say back to us. Psalm 51 resonates for Reasons 2 – 4.
Reason 5.
Disobedience to what the Lord has said. I know that disobedience to the Lord is sin, but I want to zero in on disobedience to God’s personal word to us. I shared my most poignant and painful example of this in a post last summer. https://areliablefaith.wordpress.com/2015/06/23/responding-to-the-nudge/. In this story I share how I rationalized my way out of obedience to the Holy Spirit’s nudge and the consequences were significant. This example and some lesser periods of waffling when presented with promptings from the Lord have clearly shown me that quiet ensues when we ignore what the Lord tells us.
Our Pastor has shared this with us as well. “Have you done the last thing I told you?” This is the question the Lord has laid on his heart when he has tried to maintain a dialog, while not being fully obedient to the last thing the Lord told Him to do. I admit to the same thing. A few years back I went through an extended time where the Lord repeatedly brought the same scripture to my mind as I prayed. It wasn’t until I obeyed the practical application of that scripture that my prayer life moved forward.
God is not into superficiality. There is no façade that works. Obedience is essential if we desire unhindered dialog with the Lord.
Reason 6.
We are to wait. This one is perhaps the most common for me. And it really only becomes an issue when we get our priorities backwards. At the beginning I said our #1 priority is to Know the Lord. For the finite to know the Infinite takes all our life and at the end we will still fall far short of knowing God fully. But that is what God desires and has called us to. Part of the process for getting to know the Lord is that we walk in our second priority which is: Know and Do the Things God Wants Us to Do. Life spent being where God wants and doing what God created us to do is a life well lived. However, our “doing for God” can usurp our first priority – Knowing God. When this happens we can get out of the Lord’s whisper range and we can move into the realm of silence.
I have fallen into this pit more than once. I am an active person. I also tend toward being a workaholic. I struggled to type that because in my mind I am just thorough, but my wife and others have pointed this out with enough examples that I cannot deny it. It is not uncommon for me to get involved in a good thing but fail to take the time to validate it against the Lord’s leading. Being over-committed to good things invariably leads to being under-committed to the best things.
The solution here is pretty simple. Make the #1 priority the #1 priority. Isaiah 40:31 is on the spot. “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. The shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run and not grow weary. They shall walk and not faint.”
If we seek first God and His righteousness, then we put ourselves in position to hear, to learn, and to move when He says move. For me waiting is manifested in a number of ways, but let me share my primary few.
1) Rising early with the bible, a cup of coffee, and a heart to enjoy anything new that I perceive is from the Lord. This may be a new insight in the scripture. It could be a person the Lord brings to mind that I pray for. It is often an idea that rumbles around in my Spirit picking up scriptural ties that becomes a blog post.
2) Attending worship with the sole intention of lifting up adoration and praise unto the One Who is worthy of every last bit of praise I have to give. There was a time in my life when I had to listen to a number of praise songs, concentrating on their lyrics before I moved into deep worship. I seem to have moved to a place where I come expectant and ready to commune with the Father in worship. This is awesome within our church, but it now occurs regularly whenever I listen to praise and worship.
3) Serving others has become a source of blessing for me. I have found that in praying for and caring for others, I become more sensitive to the Lord nudging me, prompting me, leading me. I know Who the answer is and so in listening to others in need, I am open to the Holy Other speaking life and hope to them. Sometimes it may be through me. Sometimes it may be through another in the conversation. But I have consistently seen the Lord minister. My role is to simply wait, be open and receptive, and do or say what I believe He leads me to do or say.
4) Out in nature – particularly at sunrise or sunset. For this one I generally am simply swept up into the awesomeness of Who God is… Creator, Sustainor, Artist, Master Designer, intimate Friend, Loving Father – and worship ensues. The utterences of my heart flow unbidden to the throne of grace. Sometimes I sense something specific in my Spirit. Always I receive the Lord’s refreshing.
I know this has been a long post. I hope and pray it has been encouraging for you. The Father loves you and He has a message for you. Seek Him and He will speak to you. Jeremiah 33:3, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.”
In closing I share a few of my favorite pics from my sunrise and sunset devotions. Be blessed my friend and allow the Father’s blessing to flow in, through, and around you to in rich abundance.

















